I don't know how to deal with this. My 8 month daughter has been slowly slipping away from me. She doesn't answer to her name or my voice or even a whistle or silly noise anymore. She looks past me and right through me. She has no concept of whether I leave he room or come back, apart from hearing the door open. She certainly isn't blind or deaf, I know that because she looks closely at her toys or traffic in the street and can hear me opening the fridge in the next room.
We cosleep in the morning and when she wakes up, on the pillow right next to me, she doesn't notice I'm there. Right now she has been happily playing with the zipper on her sleeping bag for 20 mins never checking in with me, totally withdrawn in her own world. It is not just in the morning. She rarely interacts at all except for sometimes tickling and rough play but even then she looks to the side of me or at my mouth. Zero eye contact and never any smiles just for seeing me. Never imitates me.
I am just so scared. I have posted before, this is only one of the dozen or so worrying signs that she has started showing but it is the hardest to deal with. How do you interact or communicate with a baby who won't acknowledge you? I am waiting on a referral to a paediatrician in the meantime people are saying enjoy your baby and forget your worries but how can I when every second spent with her she ignores me?
She also ignores other people. They think she is interacting with then but if you watch closely it is more like she is using them as a prop for want of any better way of explaining it.
I know some of you have had this with your babies. It is heartbreaking. How do i get through it?
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My baby doesn't know me.
WillWeBeOk · 25/01/2013 09:06
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