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Decree absolute came through today.

(36 Posts)
EllenJaneisstillnotmyname Tue 08-Jan-13 20:51:20

I know this isn't relationships but you lot are my friends and I wanted to share. It's taken 16 months due to getting finances agreed post 18 for DS2, despite dickhead admitting adultery, but I am finally, officially, legally divorced. grin , sad , confused , actually make that grin

signandsmile Wed 09-Jan-13 19:16:37

just wanted to echo all of the above, wishing you a really great 2013!

flowers

EllenJaneisstillnotmyname Wed 09-Jan-13 19:38:10

Thank you all! I've just come in from a first aid course or would have been on earlier. A virtual party sounds great, but maybe some virtual Cava? wine

Couldn't have managed it without the support and company of you lot. thanks And some RL friends, too, of course, but MN has been a great find for me. There's always someone, somewhere up for a chat. Xx

auntevil, the first 2 stone just fell off due to stress within 3 months and I liked the look of this slimmer me, so I've just kept at it. I've always been a bit of a yoyo dieter, but I haven't weighed this little for more than 20 years and so far it's staying off. Shame I have the skin of a much larger woman! blush

justaboutchilledout Thu 10-Jan-13 02:32:23

Congratulations. Onwards and upwards! And I am jealous of the weight loss!

Cheeseswept Thu 10-Jan-13 06:26:18

New Year,new start. In January it's always good to have a clear out of all the rubbish and baggage you don't need in your life grin

Firsttimer7259 Thu 10-Jan-13 16:03:34

Honk Honk. Im glad you are through to the next chapter.

frizzcat Thu 10-Jan-13 16:25:05

So what we need is a thread tomorrow night titled - "Ellen's virtual divorce party - bring cava!" - I'm there

EllenJaneisstillnotmyname Thu 10-Jan-13 16:26:43

Friday night is virtual Cava party night! grin

WilsonFrickett Thu 10-Jan-13 16:29:37

I'm out Friday but I'll be raising a real one to you Ellen. You've come through a shit time with grace. You're always one of the first to post when someone else needs help or support too. All round top burd. thanks wine

auntevil Thu 10-Jan-13 16:47:46

Don't know what to advise about the skin - bet someone on another MN topic would let you know!
Do we all need to bring a virtual dish to the virtual party tomorrow?

coff33pot Fri 11-Jan-13 08:53:10

thanks and wine Ellen xx New year and total new start. End of a chapter and the start of something new and good smile

EllenJaneisstillnotmyname Fri 11-Jan-13 14:45:54

thanks again all you geese. grin I think the only solution to the skin of a much fatter woman is plastic surgery, but in the absence of the cash, time, courage and vanity of that, maybe spanx? blush

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