There are no words that could describe what we have been going through for anyone not to use services of this so called professional. 1,5 years ago we made a decision to cancel session between my partner and her 25,5 hours in advance so I sent her a kind message apologising that he would not be able attend a session and she responded with a kind message pretending to thank me and wishing me best wishes. This month I learnt that she then went to bombard my partner with messages and phone calls. In the 1st message she was asking if he wanted to reschedule the session as she specifically wanted to hear it from him and ‘not me” as if my message was not clear and as if she didn’t respond with acknowledgement. As he didn’t respond she started phoning him and then sent 2nd inappropriate & unethical message: "Sorry to bother you but your partner has stopped payment on our session of £100 for a 2hr session in which she was late. Please can you send that to me and also I had cancelled plans on Saturday thinking you were coming and now feel so manipulated as she tried to make sure that would not happen. It is so disrespectful and creepy. Please can you send me the payment for your session that has been cancelled this Saturday. And I am happy to have you not pay for our skype session in the future. I am shocked at her behaviour and I need to be reimbursed as it is illegal to do this. Please transfer £200.And I look forward to a Skype session when it is convenient for both of us." She used lies, cheap & manipulative techniques to scare, frighten, embarrass my partner & to extort money from him & slander me behind my back.
At no point she contacted me to check what was wrong with the payment as I had no intention to withhold £100 but instead she went to accuse me behind my back without copying me in the texts. She had been set up as a payee and there should not have been any mistakes with the payment. Although it is irrelevant now but as I take such matters seriously I recently contacted my bank to see why the payment never went out. Their fraud team is investigating the case. She lied I was late - I have prove - numerous messages stating the agreed timing & further messages even detailing what time my train would arrive & her confirmation that she had cancellation after me & we could go over time. She had no right to extort money for the Saturday session as it was cancelled 25,5 hrs in advance. It sounds as if I interrupted the session that she really wanted with my partner and she was contacting him directly which is so wrong. My partner and I are not her own property and we have the right to make our own decisions. We are in position to cancel the appointment or completely stop any liaison with her, if we wished to. We never arranged any other sessions in person/Skype. If we decided not to work with her then it was obvious that no other sessions would have to be paid so this is clear she used this nonsense to once again manipulate my partner and force him to pay and to at least get money for the cancelled session on Saturday. Terminology Illegal is totally unacceptable as on the contrary her actions were illegal as she extorted money from my partner and defamed my character. Its clear she was desperate to get more business from individual sessions with him.
She knew our vulnerable situation that my partner and I were not on good terms and she took advantage of him. The last thing my partner had to hear was negative things about me. Since she was considered to be a clinical psychologist, my partner accepted her negative statements and started to undermine me. She could not contact my partner directly and express her personal negative opinion or accuse me of anything. It is unprofessional and unethical & she could not be trusted. Instead of help, her inappropriate conduct caused a lot of anxiety, pain, anger and damage to our relationship. It caused unnecessary distress, sleeping disorder to me and my family, my partner started behaving differently and it have further affected my marriage. I have been being severely affected and I regret this individual continued to operate for more than 1,5 years. For a psychologist to express such strong opinions is never acceptable. She behaved as two faced and unhappy person and it is clear she wants to break up people more so she could get more business from her sessions. It has affected me emotionally and made strong psychological impact on my well being & I don’t want others to be in my place & she cannot hurt other people. I have to warn this individual: if you ever contact my partner again, we will report you to the police & put a restriction order.