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Tony Attwood on 11th

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inappropriatelyemployed Thu 03-Jan-13 10:31:43

Who else is going to this next week?

inappropriatelyemployed Sat 12-Jan-13 12:19:38

Yes, definitely. It is a resource to plan for social skills lessons but you could use some of it at home and would be a useful resource for TAs and SLTs.

Have a think and let me know. I think it has just come out and is not the older book about CBT

lisad123everybodydancenow Sat 12-Jan-13 12:05:38

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inappropriatelyemployed Sat 12-Jan-13 11:58:41

I agree -some people will just never get it. They are just muggles as we call them.

For the others, it is a case of educating them but this is a very fine and diplomatic line to walk. It can be so easy to upset staff and schools by suggesting that you have info for them or even providing suggestions.

And there are of course those who will ask, or even smile and thank you, but then do exactly the same thing again next week.

I sat right at the back row (old habits die hard!) on the insider with woolly cardie and flowery top.

I walked around looking for carrot types but there were too many biscuit tables.

I have bought Tony's new book "Exploring Feelings...." but it is clearly for younger children. It cost 19.99 - would anyone be interested in buying it from me for a tenner. DS is 10 and too old for it. I will put in ebay if not.

lisad123everybodydancenow Sat 12-Jan-13 11:19:14

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TheNebulousBoojum Sat 12-Jan-13 10:45:54

Couldn't go, I was teaching. sad
I have, however, bought the shorter version of his book on AS for my school, and the schools that DS attended, and in my school I produced condensed, bullet points of info for staff. Plus there are several of us that are the go-to people for staff who are having problems or need ideas, and that also involves our link schools.

ArthurPewty Sat 12-Jan-13 10:01:32

I didnt get to go, but DD1 is the aspergirl type, DD2 is the boy-ASD type. Funny, isnt it?

sazale Sat 12-Jan-13 09:51:07

I was sat next Carrie but with the aisle between us.

My dd 14 is dxd ASD and my ds 5 is under assessment. Everything I hear always applies to my dd and not my ds who doesn't really do meltdowns, is very compliant etc etc. I've never been convinced that it's ASD for him but after listening to Tony yesterday I'm more suspicious.

The 2 extremes he talked about I think my kids are the opposite extremes!

lisad123everybodydancenow Sat 12-Jan-13 08:41:19

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inappropriatelyemployed Sat 12-Jan-13 07:04:23

Not sure I know who they are!

It was great but I sat there thinking: he's saying everything I know to be true and it is great to hear a professional describe all this but how do you get this through to the frontline? To schools?

I have a meeting with school on Monday. DS has a full time TA. We are going to Tribunal for more hours. But I still get moaned to about things like 'he's not paying attention' or ' he was very rude and refused to do what he was asked' or 'how do we sanction him'......

Until schools start sending teachers and TAs to these conferences were doomed in a world of constantly explaining what should be obvious to professionals who really don't understand the condition in anywhere like enough depth.

If they really want to cascade knowledge, they could offer training DVDs etc

lisad123everybodydancenow Fri 11-Jan-13 21:23:21

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sazale Fri 11-Jan-13 19:18:25

I 2nd wow! Even got a pic with Carrie and David from Carrie and David's Popshop which my dd 14 asd used to love!!

lisad123everybodydancenow Fri 11-Jan-13 18:42:54

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inappropriatelyemployed Thu 10-Jan-13 20:12:34

See you tomorrow. Won't get there til 9.15 so don't eat all the biscuits!

Turningneedssleep Mon 07-Jan-13 23:33:06

Ooh very envy went to one of his days last year in Lincoln, it was really good. Saw this on a thread before and wanted to go again but can't unfortunately. I am wondering if he will talk about the Cat-kit that he has helped produce? Here They had one you could look at in Lincoln but it was very busy and I didn't get a chance. If he does and you get a look at it can you tell me what you think? I was just discussing it with DD2's paed and am thinking of getting it but it isn't cheap.

Enjoy the spa Lisa!

tigertum2010 Mon 07-Jan-13 21:22:15

Yes, Pannetone, I'd be happy to meet up. I already look (and feel!) like I've eaten a ton of biscuits this Christmas, so loitering near them would be natural to me!

Any advance on meeting by the biscuits?

sazale Sat 05-Jan-13 21:18:41

That would be good pannetone.

lisad123 a spa! I'm well jell, ha ha!

LaundryFairy Sat 05-Jan-13 20:32:29

Thanks for pointing this out - just looked at Tony Attwood's website and see that he his also coming to Bristol in May - will try to see him there.

pannetone Sat 05-Jan-13 20:07:52

I'm going too. Anyone interested in 'meeting up' there? I have no 'RL' friends going and it would be good to meet some of you. Not sure how we fix it... don't want to accost people to see if they are wearing a carrot badge! Can we have some sort of MNSN meeting spot - by the biscuits?!

EllenJaneisstillnotmyname Sat 05-Jan-13 19:33:29

You should wear a caring carrot badge! Or just an orange triangle? wink

lisad123everybodydancenow Fri 04-Jan-13 23:44:53

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sazale Fri 04-Jan-13 23:34:30

We're staying in the holiday inn, Bloomsbury. Managed to get it in the sale for £20.12 instead of the usual £130!!

lisad123everybodydancenow Fri 04-Jan-13 23:19:16

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sazale Fri 04-Jan-13 22:12:57

Here you go
www.autisticintelligence.org/1/conferences
I'm travelling down the night before and staying in a hotel with my sis!

lisad123everybodydancenow Fri 04-Jan-13 21:13:23

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Iamaslummymummy Fri 04-Jan-13 20:15:36

I'd love to go but I don't think I can justify the expense sad

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