Just mulling this over really.... For me, I'd say I'm far closer to some of my friends than before dd was diagnosed as having SN, but with others our friendship is sadly almost non-existent now.
One friend for example made helpful comments like 'hmmm...maybe it was something you did , but hey, you'll never know so why worry about it?' to 'well, you won't be needing the family home you always dreamt of, it's not like you'll be needing a garden with swings is it?' (WTF?). Needless to say we don't see much of her these days :o.
I'm sad to have lost the friendships I have, although maybe I should be grateful to disability for allowing me to see people in their true colours. Likewise, the friends who have been supportive and have remembered that chonky does still like to have the odd bit of fun I am eternally thankful for.
Just pondering and wondering what others experiences have been like.
Here are some suggested organisations that offer expert advice on special needs.
SN children
Have your friendships changed as a result of SN?
chonky · 12/04/2006 19:24
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