Ds2 has a lot of dyspraxic type symptons along with speech and language difficulties/some autistic traits.
He is now 4.5y and cannot yet take his shoes off let alone put them on, can't get many clothes off and none on, eats more or less entirely with his fingers, spills when drinking from an open cup, isn't toilet trained - basically his self-help skills are still very behind.
I constantly have good intentions to spend time with him practising these things, so for example, when he gets in from school I try to get him to sit down and undo the straps on his shoes, and make an attempt to take them off or when he has a drink to give him an open cup. But so much of the time we are in a rush, he's not very keen to try and anyway he seems so far off being able to do it so I just end up doing it for him or giving him a beaker, or letting him eat with his fingers.
What I am wondering is whether if I don't do these things enough he will never learn or if I can just leave it to the school and accept that it will take him longer to get there. Particularly parents of older dyspraxic children - how did your child learn these skills, and how much time did you spend with them backward chaining etc to help them? Do you think there is anything specific that helped?
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parents of dyspraxic children - how do you help their self-help skills?
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Saker · 25/01/2006 20:36
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