Can't find my original thread (on which so many of you gave me such good advice and support)..?
In a nutshell: Nursery raised concerns about DS's behaviour at the end of last term. Didn't come as a surprise - we've been struggling with him at home, too .
Nursery teacher (great, supportive) arranged for the SENCo to come and observe DS at nursery. I arranged an appt at GP's to ask for a referral to a community paediatrician/ed psych, on the advice of the nursery teacher - she said a 'two-pronged' approach was quickest way to get him assessed and to get a statement for him if down the line.
So... today we had the 'follow up' meeting. It just so happened that today I also received a letter from the Community Paed saying that they could not accept GP's referral without a referral request from the nursery, too. Enclosed a load of forms about DS's behaviour to give to nursery.I feel a bit peeved about this, really, as though my word means nothing and that unless the nursery say something nobody cares if my son is struggling, but anyway. Also, that nursery/GP didn't know that this was standard procedure...
Anyway, the meeting was all very quick and casual. DS kicked off with a huge tantrum in front of all present, which held things up a bit. Once he was gone, nursery teacher introduced me to two people - the school Learning Mentor and the school Inclusion Manager. I have no idea what these terms means and there wasn't time to ask..?
They asked me questions about DS's behaviour and said they wanted to talk to us in more depth next Monday at a longer meeting. Also said they wanted to arrange for the LEA's Parent Support Advisor to come and speak to us. they were friendly, sympathetic, thought we seemed to be 'doing all the right things so far' and agreed that DS has some 'behavioural issues', although wouldnt be drawn on what they are alluding to until next week's meeting.
I am now trying to put together some questions / things to discuss at next week's meeting.
I have no idea what all these people do, that's for starters. What is the difference between a learning mentor, inclusion manager, parent support worker etc?
Also, it seems the inclusion guy was the one who observed DS, not the SENCo. Why? What could this mean? Should I be asking for the LEA's SENCo to come out, too?
The nursery teacher was really nice at the end of the meeting. Said she'd fill out the forms asap to 'get things moving.
I guess I just don't know if things are moving along in the way they should be? I did also have to stifle a groan when the inclusion guy started telling us we should try the naughty step/corner with DS. FGS. Like we haven't thought of that already.
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MrsMattie · 09/03/2009 14:35
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