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Our 8 year old son was diagnosed with Aspergers a year ago and we have been in a constant battle with his school ever since. We know he needs a EHCP (statement) but the school are reluctant to even entertain the idea, stating they will not get the funding.
There is also another boy in class who is bullying a number of children, our son being one of them. The attacks are becoming more and more violent and our son was recently choked to the point of him nearly passing out.
This is causing his anxiety levels to go through the roof and we have no confidence that the school can guarantee his or other children's safety.
Obviously our main concern is our son's safety and the impact it is having on his ability to learn. We are waiting for a separate meeting with the SENCO teacher and his teacher to review his IEP (which we have not seen a copy of before!) to understand what strategies they have in place for him.
We know that he needs extra one on one support with his literacy as he struggle to get his thoughts on paper, or is not able to tell you what he already about (although is vocabulary is above the national average if he is coached and encouraged in the right way)
The school are insisting he works in groups of six and they have a policy of making the group miss their breaks to complete the work if they do not do so. My son takes this as punishment as he does not comprehend the real reason as other children would. This then compounds his anxiety, further inhibiting his learning.
So far we have met with the school a number of occasions regarding everything I have mentioned. We have raised the issues of violence with the police and now have a crime number. We have raised the issue with OFSTED, regarding the safety of the children in school. We have spoken to the local authority (Nottinghamshire County Council) regarding the safety issue. We have also contacted the East Midlands Autistic Society by email, but have not had a response.
Despite speaking to all of the above, we are getting nowhere and we now feel like screaming from the rooftops, but feel totally helpless and frustrated. Can anyone out there help?
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justmum70 · 23/09/2015 21:29
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