For quite a long time now I've been worried about DS (age 7, nearly 8).
He's always been a highly sensitive child, has a tendency to overanalyse things and get very emotional and worried about things.
As he's gotten older I've started to see more and more behaviours which I think might point towards some sort of sensory processing disorder or high functioning autism/aspergers
He has so many little 'quirks' and anxieties, things which on their own might seem like nothing but all add up to create a bigger problem which now seem to be taking over his day to day life.
He's academically able, although handwriting is terrible. He's usually near or at the top of the class but he has such lot of anxiety about school and life in general.
Problem is apparently I'm the only one who thinks anything is wrong. I've raised it many times with husband who says its normal or I'm making too much of it. I mentioned last night that DS has lots of red flags and he said "well according to you" like I'm making it up. I reiterated many times that I think DS needs more support, especially school as he's now missed 5 out of the last 10 school days. (Migraine/upset tummy mainly due to anxiety) DH thinks I'm over reacting. School haven't raised any issues but I think DS holds it together most of the day then when he gets home he feels safe and secure enough to "let go" and the emotions and worries all come pouring out. I feel if we just ignore this we are not doing the best for DS by denying him help which I think he needs. DH works in primary education and deals a lot with children with SEN & ASD so I can't understand why he can't/won't see it in his own child.
What can I do? Should I be talking to school teacher/SENCO even though DH says no need???
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AlwaysDancing1234 · 29/04/2015 05:00
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