Sorry, first post, but I need to vent, I know this is a UK based site and I live in Ireland, but this has always been my first port of call for third party advice.
This may seem a trivial matter, but it has surfaced under different guises over the current school year.
OK, a bit of background, my son has been diagnosed with high functioning Autism and ADHD, and is mainstreamed, with a half share of a special needs assistant in class. He also has an educational plan with contributions from an occupational therapist and an educational psychologist with detailed outlines of where his difficulties lie and how to address them. Today I got a note saying that my son had spent half an hour tearing his copy up when he should have been doing his English writing. Honestly, I thought he had some sort of hissy fit and decided to tear up his copy in protest. But, no, he didn't understand the exercise and was afraid to ask the teacher for help in case he got in trouble,so he got bored and started slowly ripping his copy without the teacher or his SNA noticing for half an hour, but yet the wording indicated it was his fault. It is stated in his educational plan that he need assistance with instruction and this is one reason he has access to an SNA. I understand they are under pressure, but this is not the first time this has happened. He has problems with organisational skills, so he needs help with bringing home the correct books , or bringing his books to another class. He has gotten lines and detention in the past for forgetting these, even though it is stated in his plan that his SNA should assist him with this. So how do I address these issues in a diplomatic manner, I have seen some casualties of this process in the past, so it has to be subtle.
Many thanks for any responses.
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should a child be allowed an indulgent half hour ripping a copy in school?
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re8x · 01/04/2014 01:17
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