We sat down and discussed it with DS. He was quite happy for me not to go (very happy actually) and wants to treat it as a day with daddy. I'll be free for half an hour after the meeting starts so if theirs anything that they need I am reachable by phone.
DH pointed out that he has been unable to attend all of ds's appointments over the years so although he knows how I feel, he feels that he can be the one to do this one.
So I am going to write things down that I want to add to the meeting and trust DH
I don't know, tabulahrasa, I think that student registration has to be done in person but the OP has a very understandable reason that she can't do it on the registration day. Under the circumstance outlined by the op, I don't believe that any colleged/universaity would insist that she turned up on the day.
I am doing an access course and applying for adult nursing for next year. I was torn between Adult and Mental health as I currently work in a home for the elderly with MH problems. I will end up doing the same with Adult Nursing though.
Worth asking if it is ok not to be there, from what others have said.