I have posted a bit about this before. My ds is 12weeks old. he has never been a good sleeper, never had that newborn sleepy phase. However it isn't getting any better as he gets older, it is getting worse. During day he just won't sleep.
I don't really know what sleep cues to look out for, he yawns anything from 10mins after he has woken up. So after he has been awake about an hour I look for signs he is tired, when I think he is I swaddle him, put dummy in and have tried shush-pat/rocking/white noise CD. Sometimes this works, sometimes he gets hysterical. If he falls asleep he only stays asleep for 30mins and wakes up screaming.
I have tried co-sleeping. If I stay with him, sometimes he stays asleep, other times he wake sup after 10mins and screams.
He will sometimes fall asleep in sling, but he screams a lot first and I have to walk for about half an hour, which then means walking for 2 hours to give him enough sleep. I can't do this 3-4 times a day! He will only sleep for 30mins in pram, and this isn't always guaranteed to get him to sleep.
he hates the car and screams in it.
He was diagnosed with reflux, but gaviscon didn't help and made him constipated. All 3 GPs at my surgery have refused to give him anything else- saying "he'll grow out of it". I am not sure if it is reflux but he vomits a lot- it soaks the front of him and me every time. (12-15times a day)I have no idea if this is effecting his sleeping.
I am exhausted. he just gets more and more overtired so that evenings are hell. I feel like I spend the whole day trying to get him to sleep, until we ar eboth crying.
Has anyone got any suggestions?
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roslily · 01/12/2009 17:03
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