Anyone else struggling with this and want to join?
Anyone who is not totally against all CC per se know when you should reasonably give up? I have not had the magic results with DD I was promised and I am pretty much broken. I was so sure she was ready before I started (had medical check up too, to be safe) and now we are not getting anywhere (or not very far anyway) in a week I am wondering whether a. I am doing it wrongly or b. I shouldn't be attempting it at all.
Reasons for carrying on now:
she is fit and well with no other upheaval in her life and I have to go back to work in Jan - I can't do it when she is dealing with that too, or if she picks up one of these awful bugs going around;
she has slept through without feeding or stirring (once) and all the signs show she is physically ready;
I have started and so to give up now means I have put us through a week of misery for nothing.
Reasons to stop:
it is bloody awful, relationship with DP cracking under the strain, I have a once in a blue moon girls' night out planned tonight and if I go out I can pretty much be sure all my efforts so far will be for nothing as I will come back at midnight and find dd out of her cot in DP's arms, all the lights on, bottles of expressed milk all around and she'll be beaming and kicking her legs while he says "I just couldn't settle her and I was sure she was hungry."
Please someone come and tell me to either stick to my guns or throw the towel in and make me feel ok about either. DD is 7 months, 50th centile for weight, eating food and breast fed, cheerful and active in the day, goes down well to sleep at first but doesn't want to stay there.
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vezzie · 25/11/2009 09:35
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