DD is breastfed to sleep every night, sometimes this goes well, sometimes its not, and takes a couple of hours to get her asleep in her cot as she will wake just as I am about to put her down. I was trying to put her down sleepy but not asleep. Hmmm! More often that not, she is asleep. She does not nap in the day, unless in the car or pram or in my arms and then wakes if I try to transfer her to her cot.
I want to introduce some scheduled naps as I think she needs them and I need her to need them as am exhausted and need some time in the day to do things that need to be done (I don't have any help, its just me and DP). I could breastfeed to sleep but HV said she needs to learn to self sooth. Having read up on this I sort of realised this but needed to get some advice from a real person not just read it in a book. HV suggested we use same method for daytime naps as for night sleeping, ie CC or PU/PD or gradual retreat. Which one to choose though? Any thoughts on which is most successful? The other issue is she is in her cot in our room and has been for a month or so. She still comes into our bed for feeds (wakes maybe once twice in night at most, otherwise wakes at about 5.30 after 8 hour stretch, fortunately) and I sometimes manage to get her back into her cot afterwards (asleep) sometimes not and we will co-sleep the rest of the night. I don't know when she will go in her own room. Will sleep training work now? Will it have to be done again when she goes in her own room? What about teething / weaning and all those other things that will disrupt her sleep? I am dreading it. Part of me wants to continue the breastfeeding to sleep and do it for naps too. The rational part says that I have to deal with this and get a grip and go through sleep training as then she gets some independence and so do we. Is breastfeeding to sleep a rod for my/our back? Grateful for any thoughts and sorry if this is a ramble....
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Wisdom needed please! DD is 5 months, do we sleep train now or when she is in her own room, and importantly, how?
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ilovespagbol · 09/04/2009 23:58
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