for the past 6 weeks my dd who is nearly 7 has been waking up most nights. she has quite high levels of anxiety generally, but they seem to increase at night.
she is now awake most nights for a period of an hour or 2 between 12 and 3 am. she has difficulty getting back to sleep and she calls out repeatedly asking to sleep with us.
we've tried night lights, reward charts, essential oils and even bought her some worry dolls to put under her pillow!
i've tried being patient and talking to her during the day about it.
her dad even slept in with her and her sister for a few nights to try to break the pattern.
i am now at the end of my tether. i am really tired and struggling to cope as i often cant sleep even once she has gone back to sleep. i have got to the point that i am angry and impatient when she wakes.
i imagine that dd is reacting to some family stresses that we are experiencing right now, so i do understand that there are reasons for her behaviour. however, what i need now is a strategy to try to break this new pattern and get us all through the night without feeling sleep deprived.
i did think about putting a mattress on the floor in my room so that she can creep in without disturbing us. i thought that just knowing this option was there for her might make her relax and help her to stay in her bed.
any thoughts?
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7 year old dd anxious and waking during night. help please!
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schmu · 20/02/2009 10:05
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