Please can someone give us some help and advice.
Dd 3.6yrs has always been a brilliant sleeper (without us trying) she would sleep well from weeks old and once night feeds stopped she would sleep easily 7pm-7/8/9am.
These days she sleeps 7pm-7ish am
Nothing has changed in the last few weeks afaik (although I did remove her dummy from nighttimes 2 weeks ago, no issues,she was pleased etc..)
BUT Tuesday of last week she woke around 10pm ish, very upset, uncontrollable,didn't seem responsive iykiwm and wouldn't talk.
I settled her only to be back in at 11pm with the same again..BUT I had a feeling she was still asleep. So settled and comforted her again. She was the same again 10 mins later this time vomiting.
Dh is away week days atm so I put her into bed with me as I was worried about her vomiting in her sleep etc.
She slept fine.
Wed night (next night) she was shocking. Woke at 4am hysterical. Wouldn't settle, SCREAMING,so after a 45 min battle (inc me nearly strangling her ) I put her into our bed.
The same again thurs night and after anther battle dh put her into bed with us (thing is ds is a v bad sleeper..so we are v tired and worry she will then wake him)
Same fri night but sat night although she woke x3 we could reason with her, not let her get into a state etc..BUT the 4th time she was hysterical again and dh reasoned with her to have a dummy.
Now tonight..............WE HAVE NEVER HAD A PROBLEM WHEN PUTTING HER TO BED............Tonight we did .
She has been upstairs since 7pm and is unmanagable.
She has said over the last few days she doesn't like her room, wants it painting,doesn't like the fan in there (had it since birth and moans if its off..) says it keeps moving .
So, i refuse to redecorate her room BUT we both settled on family pictures on the back of her door for her to look at and dh has just rearranged the furniture..
She won't let us out of the room without a battle......
HELP me please...dh is back to work tomorrow and I find it hard coping with him BUT even harder when she is like this and he is away. The lack of sleep is finally taking its toll...
What do we do, what can we do...?
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Shhhh · 18/01/2009 19:41
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