DD, 12.5mo, has always been a fantastic sleeper, she slept through from 6 weeks, she was exclusivly BF. She still sleeps through with the occasional night waking if hungry/thirsty/dirty/ill/too hot or too cold, but it is once in a blue moon.
DD does wake at night but settles herself almost straight away and we don't need to go in to her, only if it is one of the above listed.
In the day she naps like a star and will self settle to sleep then, but OMG night times are just......argh....there are no words.
DD will NOT self settle to sleep at night, will only go to sleep on a bottle, with rocking, walking around the block in her pram. She screams bloody murder when we leave her in her cot if she is awake, if she is asleep she will not settle once placed in her cot and wakes up. We have to get her into a deep sleep before we can even think about getting her in her cot.
From about 7mo we have had a routine which worked perfectly.
5-6pm dinner
6-7pm play and wind down (no TV)
7-7.15pm bath
7.15-7.30pm bed
8.00pm asleep
This routine worked well for us all. We have not changed it, we make it slightly flexible at weekends etc but do not change it dramatically IYSWIM.
ALl of this changed about 10 weeks ago when DD had D&V for the best part of 2 bloody weeks and it was impossible to keep to the routine. As soon as DD was better we went back to the routine but to no avail.
DH and I are at our wits end with this. I feel such a fraud because once DD is asleep she sleeps for no less than 8-9 hours solid 99% of the time so we are very lucky. It is just taking us 2-3 hours to get her settled. I am pg with lo number 2 and am knackered, DH works full time so is also knackered when he gets in.
Sorry to have gone on so long, I just wanted to give as much info as poss.
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DH and I are at the end of our tether trying to get DD to sleep in the evenings, please help us.
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AndaPartridgeOnADustyTv · 10/12/2008 21:43
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