My DS is nearly 7 months old. From birth he was a good sleeper only ever waking once a night to feed. From 4 months he slept through from 7 to 7. Then at about 5 1/2 months everything went wrong and he started waking every hour throughout the night. He would be inconsolable and the only way I could get him back to sleep was to breastfeed him. This made things worse and in the end he could pretty much only sleep whilst latched on so I was lucky if I got more than about an hour's sleep a night.
In desperation and against my own isntincts we started trying controlled crying 10 days a go.
In some ways it has worked really well, DS is no longer fed at night and wakes only briefly when he grizzles for a few minutes at most and then puts himself back to sleep. The problem is that we are still having quite a bit of crying when we first put him to bed, usually around 10-15 minutes or so.
The thing is I thought the cc would help him to settle himself and that by now he would go happily into his cot with no tears at all and simply fall asleep. Am I asking for too much? I feel awful that his last experience everyday is of crying alone in his cot and am not sure whether to continue or not.
Also, he still seems to associate sleep with feeding as even before naps he will try and get at my boobs but if I do feed him doesn't really suck and just drops off.
Will the cc sort this out or should I give up and go back to rocking him to sleep? My worry is that if I stop the cc, DS will fall back into his old habits and stop being able to settle himself at night or at all without the help of a nipple.
Sorry for long post, could do with some advice!
Sorry for long post but could do with some advice.
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Controlled Crying - is it working or not?
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ready2pop · 15/09/2008 11:23
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