hello all, it has been more than a year since i have posted on any sleep forum as i was just determined to go with the flow and stop stressing like crazy over dd's atrocious sleep. well she is 2 years and 2 months and her little sister is due in 3 weeks time, and after last night, i am starting to panic...
basically she takes a long time to fall asleep in the evenings (one hour i would say), she is in a big girl's bed which has improved things a lot but still. then sometimes in the ngiht (between 12 and 4, but usually around 1.30) she comes to bed with us.
i actually don't mind either the long settling down period (we do get to cuddle a lot and i actually enjoy that quiet time as i am not great at relaxing and that forces me to do it) but can see it will be a problem with a newborn to take care of too. and i don't mind the cosleeping either, as long as she actually sleeps. but there are nights like last night where she just keeps tossing and turning and kicking both me and dh and it drives us insane. i am not really sure what the logistics of cosleeping with a toddler and a newborn will be- i suppose we'll figure something out- but i am still panicky. my dh is a great dad and partner but the sleep issue really stresses him out and he gets really mad. he is not hugely flexible either, so he won't for example go to sleep in another room occasionally so at least he gets some sleep... as a result we are all tired and groggy. and surely things can only get worst.
not sure what i am hoping to hear- no point i think in trying to change things now as a minirevolution is about to take place... i suppose i would love someone to tell me that it won't be too bad and we'll figure something out...
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heavily pregnant and my toddler is a terrible sleeper- panic setting in!!!
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beforesunrise · 22/04/2008 10:03
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