Hi
I have obviously done something hugely wrong and got my poor 21 week old ds into terrible sleeping habits because his sleeping just seems to be getting worse and worse.
He used to sleep for up to 3 1/2 hours at night and up to an hour and a half for naps but now barely sleeps at all. In the day he'll have 5-10min naps at most and won't be put down. He fights napping for ages and when he does go off wakes almost immediately and refuses to go back off. At night he goes to bed fine but wakes about 45 minutes later and every half hour after that. If I'm lucky I'll manage to get him to sleep for one and a half hour stretches through the night but he'll only do this in our bed and not in his cot. This has been going on for a few months now.
Today I'm more exhausted than I've ever been and really feel I can't go on like this. DH has had to stay hime from work as I've been in such a state. I've been in tears most of the day. I also have a toddler and it's not fair on her.
Ds is breastfed and has been feeding to sleep. We have no set routine for him so today I have tried to initiate one. It has been a disaster. DS has screamed all day. We've tried putting him down for naps when he first shows signs of tiredness. We've done shush/pat and pick up/put down and all they've done is make him furious. DH tried to get him to nap for 2 hours this morning to no avail. It eventually took us 7 hours to get him to take a nap and I ended up feeding him to sleep again out of sheer exhaustion. I know it's early days but surely setting a routine shouldn't be this hard. How long tdo you try to get a baby to nap before you decide it's best for both of you to give up?
What can I do next? Please help
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I feel like such a failure. Ds doesn't seem to sleep at all..ever! (long, sorry)
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spangly · 01/02/2008 19:44
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