Hi everyone, I was please hoping for some advice.
DD is 3 months, and has never been a good sleeper. In the night she just wants to sleep on me, and wakes up whenever she's put down. We have a co sleeper (chicco next 2 me), and I rock her to sleep then transfer her into the crib. Sometimes she will sleep for a little while in it if she doesn't wake up right away, but then just wakes up again. I didn't used to mind her sleeping on me, but this past week I've been getting back ache. I'm so tired of waking every hour. She doesn't need a feed to get to sleep (but can sleep after a feed as well), and won't co sleep next to me, she just wants to be on me. She also doesn't like swaddling, music/white noise doesn't help but she does sleep a little better on her side rather than her back. I don't want to leave her crying though, so don't know what I can do if anything?
Also during the day this is difficult. We have a stretchy wrap which she used to sleep in, but now doesn't like it as she feels too restricted. I have looked into buying a tula or ring sling in case she prefers those, but they are more expensive so dh isn't keen. She also won't sleep in her pram. So during the day I'm feeling stuck under a sleeping baby - I do love the cuddles but struggle to get things done.
I also don't understand how people have routines at this age. I keep reading to put baby into a night time routine - bath, massage, story, milk, sleep for eg. But dd is too small to sleep in the room by herself so am I supposed to just go to bed really early or something? Right now after her bath and massage she just stays downstairs with us (sleeping and feeding) until we go up to bed. Is this wrong?
I'm so sorry for the long post, I'm just doubting myself and feel I'm doing everything wrong. My mum and mil want me to leave her to cry, but it just doesn't feel natural to me. Thank you
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enchantmentandlove · 18/09/2016 04:56
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