Hello,
I'm after some advice from anyone who has been in a similar position or has any suggestions, please!
I'll try to be brief. My little girl is 21 months old. She is breastfed but only feeds before bedtime, not at all in the day. She has a 2 hour nap every day in her cot, no problems at all. She goes to bed in her cot at 7pm, again no problems (most of the time, unless poorly/we've been on holiday etc, then I just reassure her in the cot until almost asleep then leave). The problem is overnight.. She sleeps solidly from 7pm until anywhere between 10pm-12am, where she wakes and is furious unless I lift her out of her cot and feed her (always on my bed as she's a lie down feeder!) then she goes straight back to sleep, but I'm usually so tired I fall asleep with her then on the bed rather than put her back. She did start only waking and feeding once at around midnight then sleeping (beside me) soundly until 6.30-7am which was amazing, but that's gone downhill, hence my posting.
The last few nights she has woken between 10-11pm, will not settle in her cot again so has a feed, then seems to wake every couple of hours during the night shouting for 'more!' and screaming if I refuse to feed her! This then wakes my husband, and we have a 4 year old who has just started school so I worry he will wake too, so I give in and feed her!
How on earth can I wean her off this? I don't mind co-sleeping, equally happy for her to stay in her cot, but either way the overnight feeding needs to go, it's becoming crazy - like a newborn!
I'm not sure whether to go completely cold turkey and somehow deal with the screaming? Or offer water instead? I don't want to substitute it for something else as I'm aiming to avoid the wake ups altogether? Do I still bring her in with me but refuse to feed, or just deal with the screaming in her cot, so tackling both at once? I've no idea. I never envisaged breastfeeding her this long, after only doing a few months with my son. It's just never fizzled out, now she's crazy for it overnight!
If anyone has any ideas please help! Thank you..
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How to wean my 21 month old from co-sleeping and feeding all night?
car1sberg · 12/09/2016 13:55
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