My 18 week old DD is a good sleeper through the night she will sleep in her cot from around 11 until 5 when she will stir for a little but will drop back off quickly until 8.30 am. She then wakes for the day.
In the evening we start her bed time routine at around 6.30. She is bf to sleep then. The past six nights I have tried putting her up to bed at about 8 pm. It's worked twice. Tonight all hell broke loose and she has screamed solidly for the last 40 mins despite all my attempts to settle her. We are now back down stairs on the sofa, she's feeding again and fast asleep.
My MiL and SIL keep telling me that she shouldn't be on the boob as much as she is of an evening and she should be learning to self settle in bed otherwise she will never have routine etc.
I just don't know what to do. She will sleep on me from about 7.30 until we go to bed, then have another feed and then she will go down easily in her cot.
Is is really a big deal if she stays down stairs on me feeding?
I honestly don't know how I can get her in to a bed time routine, but then I guess she is in a routine it's just not perceived as "normal" to my MIL and SIL.
When is a good age to attempt going to bed by herself so to speak? How can I do it gently without causing her distress?
Any help and advice would be greatly received.
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FirstTimerAtBeingAMummy · 18/08/2016 21:40
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