hi,
i need help.
yesterday we rearanged DS1s bedroom and put DS2s cot in there(ages 2.1yrs and 7 months).
They dont usually go to bed easily at all, but we gave them theyre first 'together' bath, got pjs on and had their milk - surprisingly they both went to sleep straight away and stayed asleep...
until1.45am when DS1 woke up.
now usually when this happens Dad goes in picks him up and he comes in our bed.
but not tonight, i wasnt sure which approach to go with so first i went in comforted him, lay him down and sat next to the bed, he just lay there eyes wide open for 30 mins, i was tired and wanted my bed so decided this wasnt working so i would try controlled crying
i got up left and he screameddd
i returned hugged him, put him down
he was just sobbing and screaming saying 'wheres dad, go in there, what you doing?'
it was awful, and this went on for a further 2 hours
finally i gave in and gave him a bottle and he just held it, sobbing and fell asleep
DS2 somehow didnt awaken!
but then about and hour later DS2 started crying - who we have the same problem with, he wants to be in our bed
but i was so terrified he would wake his big brother up and it would start again i just went and got him and just brought him in our bed
then DS1 woke and i did the same as i was soooooo tired and couldnt face a repeat of what happened earlier
so what should i do??
how do i handle one waking and doing CC without the other starting,
should i put them in seperate rooms? until they sleep properly?
i cant believe i gave up, im just sooo tired
I was the one doing all this, DF slept through and now hes decided hes having a lie in ands left me with the boys! hhmmmppfff
tired kitty
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I TRIED .. IT WAS AWFUL (AND THEY BOTH ENDED UP IN OUR BED) - HELP ME!
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kittylette · 21/01/2007 09:38
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