Hi all
My 2 year old DD has always been an amazing sleeper - going down for all naps and bed on her own and self settling within 5-10m. Waking happy singing to herself and calling for us to get her after a bit.
Last week however she suddenly didn't want to go down for a nap and had to leave her crying for 5m (she didn't get out of her bed) until she laid herself down and dropped off. That night she didn't want to go to bed and was near hysterical when I went to leave her, as soon as I walked out she was out of bed screaming for me and opening her door. I took her back to bed and this continued for about half an hour, she said she was scared and wanted me to sit on the chair in her room. In the end I did as she did seem genuinely scared and it's so unlike her. She dropped off in a few mins but woke in the night again hysterical and desperate to get out of her room. She came in bed with us and slept on and off.
Next day she went to childminders and napped there fine apparently. At bedtime she was upset at the mention of going to bed and kept saying. "Mummy sit on chair, my bed naughty, me sleep mummy's bed etc" she went into bed at 730 and didn't go to sleep til 930pm. I tried rapid return but she was getting so upset. So I sat next to her door in the end reassuring her I was there. In the night she woke at 2am screaming for me and i ended up lying on the floor next to her bed for 2 hours but she wouldn't go back to sleep! She just lay there quietly with her dummy and bunny?!?! Again took her in with me at 4am and she slept til 5 then was up for the day.
Yesterday I decided maybe she was having too long nap (1.5-2 hours after lunch, getting up no later than 330pm) I lay her in bed after lunch but she just lay there and was so tired but wouldn't go to sleep, just lay quietly. I gave up after 45m and got her up and she seemed fine. She slept in car for 15m at 3pm but that was it all day. At bedtime she went off in 10m as was so tired, with me in the room. She woke at 2am v upset and again I tried everything to settle her - drink, laying with her, rapid return, being v firm, and at 4am I gave up and brought her in bed with me but STILL she wouldn't sleep. She was so tired but wouldn't let herself sleep- kicking covers off, kicking me, crying on and off asking to get up. At 5am I lost it and put her back in her bed shut the door and said to my husband he can deal with her. He tried and failed (she was screaming like a banshee) so took her downstairs. We have a 1 year old and a 6 year old aswell so didn't want to wake them.
She had a 40m nap at 10am and that's it so far. No idea what to do/ try tonight. I'm exhausted and dreading it.
Is it a nightmare that's made her scared to sleep? If so I don't want to be mean and make her stay in her bed if she's scared. She has fairy lights and music but didn't want them on. Never ever been a sleep problem before I just want to help her :(
If she's just being defiant (she's a v v strong willed stubborn child) then I'll happily be v firm with her but don't want to add fuel to the prob if she's really scared.
Cutting her nap altogether and she'll be overtired but I thought she could have an hour max (if she will?!)
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feeling desperate - 2 year old suddenly won't sleep
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littlemissblue · 12/06/2016 14:23
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