Hi all, I feel like at each stage of my baby's development I'm asking for help but now I really am at my wit's end. My son was just beginning to sleep better and we hit a horrendous 4 month sleep regression. We were just coming through that when he became unwell and sleep went again.
Now he will only sleep for 40 minutes at a time maximum and often less. From what I've read that's probably 1 sleep cycle and he's unable to keep himself asleep during the transition into another cycle so he wakes up and ends up crying because he wants comfort.
He's so tired that he ends up over-tired, screaming and unable to sleep - but nothing I do seems to keep him asleep. We're co-sleeping at night just because it's less disruptive but if he's in my bed he will only settle if I'm holding him which means neither of us are probably getting good enough sleep - and he still wakes after 40 minutes and gets upset.
We've tried a dummy, a sleepyhead, co-sleeping and not co-sleeping, feeding to sleep and cuddles but not feeding, white noise, a soft toy, playing lullabies, putting my clothes in with him, warming his cot, napping up in the dark or downstairs with me and nothing makes a difference!!
I know babies wake up and I signed up to this but honestly he should be able to stay asleep longer because he clearly isn't rested enough as he's rubbing his eyes and cranky more than he is happy. Whereas before this, we'd cut down night feeds and he would sleep for 2-3hours before waking and he was a happier baby.
I'm just desperate for a couple of hours sleep in a row rather than just 40 minutes. Has anyone got any advice on how I can help him learn to stay asleep - for his sake as well as my own sanity??
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6 months old and won't sleep for longer than 40 minutes at a time
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Noof · 11/05/2016 16:01
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