DC2 (5 months) is going the same way as his sleep-averse older sibling.
I am only managing to get him to nap for about 20 minutes two or three times during the day, and then often only in the car. He needs to sleep by 7pm and generally sleeps until 11pm but needs a feed. As a result, I'm not getting to sleep until 11.30 or midnight, and then he will wake 4 or 5 times to feed. He has been waking up earlier and earlier each day this week and has been up since 5am today. It's 9am and he's still going - I have been trying to get him to sleep for over an hour and we also have a 4yo to look after.
DC1 was a high needs non-sleeping child until the age of 2, constantly battling naps. We would spend an hour or more trying to get a 20 minute nap. We are still dealing with one or two night wake ups from DC1.
DC2 is put in a sleeping bag in a dark room and fed/held to sleep. Will not settle if put down and hates being patted or shushed. Is breastfed and now refusing to feed from a bottle, so it is all on me. DH is away a lot so we can't try a new routine with only him.
I was pretty relaxed through the four month sleep regression, but he should be out of that now and is definitely getting worse. My mental and physical health can't survive as much sleep deprivation as I had with DC1, it just can't.
I am on the alert for sleep cues and seeing eye rubbing and yawning - I then get on with trying to get him to nap, but he will feed peacefully and then wake up as I am holding him, or moments after putting him down. I try not to rush the put down part but obviously have another child who needs me (or needs picking up/dropping off at preschool).
Can someone talk me through what naps should look like at 5 months? Duration and frequency etc? If DC wakes after 20 mins, do I give up and try later or try again immediately?
I am exhausted already and it's only 9am. I can't cope with waking up feeling completely exhausted. And I don't know why a baby who was regularly doing 5 or 6 hour stretches overnight at 3 months is now suddenly going 90 minutes at most! Please please help...
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In desperate need of sleep advice for 5 month old
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ShootTheMoon · 06/02/2016 09:15
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