And breathe....
I'm fucking knackered... My husband is fucking knackered and my marriage and life are slowly being eroded by general exhaustion.
I have 14 mo twins. One is a dream and sleeps from half seven give or take till seven or quarter past most nights with may one or two wake up before midnight when she's lost her dodo. The other is a nightmare and I'm losing the will to live. He goes down the same time as his sister, but wakes up SCREAMING, proper screaming like a feckin banshee every morning without fail at 5. He is inconsolable and the only thing to do is get up with him. He then spends the next couple of hours whinging and being knackered until he takes a nap. Can be anywhere from half an hour after he's woken to not taking a nap till he passes out at maybe ten in the morning.
We have NO morning routine which I fucking HATE. Sometimes DS will take a nap before breakfast which means DD has to either wait till he gets up or I have to do two separate breakfasts. I don't know when I'm going to get a shower or get dressed. It's a mess.
I'm crap in the morning. Can't cope with the early wake up so my husband gets up with DS and I do all the night time wake ups and then at least know I can sleep uninterrupted till seven when DD wakes.
DD takes an afternoon nap between 12 and 1 and sleeps for anywhere between an hour and a half to two hours and a quarter. DS takes a nap around the same time but it depends on what he's done in the morning and can take ages to settle, he also wakes up screaming from his afternoon nap.
Please can someone tell me what I'm doing wrong? Or at least tell me it'll get better (soon!! Please god soon)
He's always knackered looking, place with bags under his eyes, and although he's a lovely happy little guy when he's in bad form he's just on constant whine mode and when I'm sleep deprived it goes right through me.
They both eat well. 8oz bottle in the morning, followed by breakfast (some time depending on nap for DS) then lunch about half eleven twelvish, 8oz bottle after afternoon nap. Dinner about half five. Bedtime bottle 8oz at seven then bed time with story and lights out (I sit with them till they go over)
Any ideas?
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Vedamakesthebesttoast · 28/12/2015 10:35
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