Could really do with some advice/ tips on how to settle 8mo DS.
DS was an awful sleeper until 4 months old when, out of the blue, he just started sleeping through the night. I put him in his cot still awake at 7:30 and he would go to sleep within 15 mins and then sleep until 5:30 in the morning. Great! Except then after about 6 weeks he started crying if I left him still awake, so I started sitting with him, singing, stroking his head etc until he fell asleep ( usually about 30 mins).
This carried on for a week and then it all fell apart ... He started refusing to even go in his cot and would scream if I even stood near it while holding him so I started lying with him on my bed until he drifted off and then putting him in his cot, it was taking over an hour at this point but still manageable and I didn't mind too much ( quite enjoyed the snuggles ) but then after a few weeks of that DS decided to change the rules again!
I'm now in a situation where he will not be put in his cot, on my bed, in his travel cot basically anywhere that he associates with sleep. He screams bloody murder if we even go upstairs at bedtime, I mean really hysterical and doesn't calm down until I bring him downstairs. But he won't sleep downstairs either! I try cuddling and rocking him to sleep, putting him in travel cot but he just screams and screams - he is only happy once I put him down and let him crawl around and play with his toys! He usually crashes out anytime between 11pm and 1am - but still wakes up at 5/6 in the morning!
I'm exhausted and a mess! I'm a single parent and DS is a very demanding baby so the only time I get to eat, bathe or clean my house is once he's asleep at night. So after weeks of this I am struggling ( people tell me to nap when he does in the day but because of him not sleeping at night it's the only time I have to shower or do housework ) and DS is getting crankier in the day because he's overtired!
Tried doing CC but lasted for 30 mins - he was really hysterical and I had to stop as he started smacking his head off the cot in frustration.
I'm really hoping someone has some suggestions/thoughts on why he's started doing this. Our routine hasn't changed at all and I don't know what to try next. FWIW once he goes off he's down for the night - it's just trying to get him to sleep on the first place.
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TheWeeBabySeamus · 24/07/2015 11:20
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