My 3.5 ds just will not fall asleep by himself, he has always been bad at self settling as was bf and tended to fall asleep feeding and then with a bottle. The reason for this initially was he has twin sisters 2 yrs older and an older brother (7) so it was easier to get hime to sleep and then deal with the others(esp as when born eldest not even 4). Then he got a bit better but has got progressively worse since being in a bed (6 months sgo). I feel like he will never go to sleep by himself!
We tend to stay in the room with him until he falls asleep which works quite well for dh or grandparents but if i do that he messes about, gets up starts laughing etc, even if i just sit there without speaking. So then i end up saying if he doesn't stay in bed i will shut the door, switch light off until he will stay in his bed but this can take along time (tonight over 1.5 hrs).
My dh doesnt get home until after 730pm so this doesnt really work in the week as i have the other 3 to put to bed so i end up in and out of bedrooms settling everyone!
I've tried lots of things, we can't put a stairgate on his door as he would just climb over it now, i tried rapid return but again with 3 other children to put to bed it became impossible, he is always better for someone else (which makes me feel even worse).
Any ideas of what we can do would be gratefully received.
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appleandplum · 04/05/2015 21:44
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