I have a 2yo who has always needed quite a lot of input in the night - I'm fine with that, really, I don't think one or two night wakings is unreasonable and if she needs someone, she needs someone, and that is fine. And like a walk in the park compared to what she used to be like!
What we have now though is a situation where she has hysterics twice a night. She will scream her head off like she is having the worst tantrum imaginable and will not be comforted - she does not want to be picked up or put down, held, talked to, rocked, whatever you do is wrong. She can't be tempted out of it and it has to run its course. The screaming usually lasts 20-25 minutes before she is all screamed out and will settle into a hiccoughy blotchy mess. She can't explain what is happening. Then she needs properly resettling, we basically have to do bedtime again, books and milk, because she needs to wind down after being so distraught. The whole process takes up to an hour. And then she does it again.
The usual times for it are between 12.30-1am then 3.30-4am. Nobody is getting much sleep, and although I'm mostly used to that, it is waking other children and neighbours too.
I don't expect her to magically sleep through the night but these screaming fits are tough to deal with and I would love to know what is going on. I worry about her teeth having milk in the night and also it affecting her appetite. And no one is happy having a toddler running round the upstairs screaming for all she is worth!
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IdaClair · 27/01/2015 22:47
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