Hello, my first post (tho I'm an avid reader, esp of the sleep boards, they are addictive!).
Normally find answers to my questions on previous threads, but this one has me stumped. My seven month old dd has never been one for getting drowsy, and always needed to be sung and rocked or walked to sleep (used to breast feed to sleep when younger and still does at 3/4/5 am when she wakes and comes out of her cot and we co sleep for rest of night). She does get tired, I can spot the cues now, but seems to get more agitated the more tired she gets, rather than drowsy.
These days she doesn't want to be held or rocked or walked. She wriggles, squirms around, pushes away from me, and eventually cries and screams. But I've tried putting her in the cot at the end of the relaxing routine (bath, bottle and breast feed, books, song) and sing and stroke and repeat 'sleepy time now' etc, and keep turning her on to her front (how she sleeps) and rubbing and patting back, but she just plays, and rolls onto her back, and eventually starts crying and then works up to red faced screaming if I don't pick her up.
I've tried a leaving the room for a couple minutes at a time and then picking up and comforting until she stops crying and putting down again version, and a staying with her and soothing while she stays in cot, but she never seems to get to a drowsy point.
I can get her off in the sling quite quickly but when I put her down (v carefully!) she wakes after 30 mins and can be hard to get back to sleep again.
She also wakes a few times through the night but can usually be patted or cuddled back to sleep quite easily until 3/4/5 am when my boyfriend (who sleeps in her room on a spare bed so I can get some rest) hands her over to me if she won't go back down again, as we assume she might be hungry and figure it is too soon for night weaning.
Naps; another story, always been a 30min catnapper in cot, but have recently been able to get longer naps in the buggy with lots of jiggling at the 30 min mark. Would love longer cot naps and have tried resettling and wake to sleep but she wakes up, bing! Happy and won't be soothed back again.
Right, I will stop this rambling essay now!
Thanks so much in advance for any advice.
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Running out of options : 7 month-old won't be rocked or get to sleep in cot
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Parsnipnibbler7 · 13/11/2014 15:45
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