DS is nearly 3.
He has very active days with a nap of around 1 - 1.5 hours.
We put him down to bed between 7:30pm and 8pm. He always has the same routine of wind down, warm milk, bath, teeth, stories, lights out.
He just will not go to sleep. He's never been a great sleeper but this is getting worse. Last night it was gone 11pm before he went to sleep.
He shouts, he cries and he winds himself up till he is hysterical. He says he "can't sleep". We generally go up to him (not immediately) when he starts, tell him it's time to sleep and we love him. Sometimes we do end up giving him some water as he has shouted himself hoarse. Sometimes I do give in and give him another story or a cuddle, though we try to stick to "boring but reassuring".
He won't have the lights out in the corridor - he gets scared if they go out but I think the extra light isn't helping him drop off. We've tried a soft night light in his room but that scares him . He won't have the door shut (full meltdown.)
He wakes in the night - same thing. Last night as I say it was gone 11pm when he finally went down then he woke at 4am. I had to get him up at 7am for work and nursery. We all shattered, including him
I just don't know what to do.
I was thinking of putting some really relaxing music playing outside his room tonight (like you get when having a massage) - I don't know if that will do anything but I am at my wits end and ANY suggestions would be great
Thank you
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Nearly 3 Year Old will not sleep
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catgirl1976 · 23/10/2014 14:52
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