Today 11:46 Beckyp246
Hello, was wondering if anyone could advise on sleep regression due to separation anxiety.
My son is 9.5 months and has slept through the night since 5 months. The sleep training we did previously wasn't anything specific but probably closest to the 'no cry' method, I.e. we slowly decreased the rocking etc until he went into cot awake and happily got himself to sleep. Through this he gradually slept longer and longer until he dropped the night feeds himself.
HOWEVER due to a series of events - our first weekend away (son came with us), his first real illness and his Dad returning to work after a 3 month sabbatical, we're now in the situation that our baby screams hysterically the moment he's left in his cot, and has also started waking in the night and just won't be settled. He screams, won't allow us to soothe him (pushes hand away etc) and keeps getting onto all fours and standing up in cot. He's been crawling and standing for a few months now so I don't think it's the mobility which is causing the issue itself although it obviously doesn't help!
After lots of research we are planning to use the gradual retreat sleep method as I really do feel that leaving him when he is so clearly scared of being by himself would be counterproductive. He also has a will of iron (!) and can become absolutely hysterical, so I don't feel any sort of controlled crying is going to work in this instance.
Sorry for rambling long post but any advice on how other parents have dealt with sleep training during separation anxiety would be so helpful. My husband is working out the house 7am-7pm so I am handling the majority of this solo and would so like to try and do the right thing first time. My son is incredibly, incredibly active during the day and I'm not sure how on earth I'm going to cope with that when neither of us are getting any rest to start the day off!
Thanks so much! xx
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Beckyp246 · 05/10/2014 13:48
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