My 4 (5 next month) year old DD wakes up every night and wants me to sleep with her. She has a double bed so I get in and sleep. But it's disturbed sleep and I am shattered.
I tried Millpond when she was 18 months old. Did it for 6 months. It worked in that she would sleep on her own for a bit of the night rather than on top of me but the waking up in the night has never improved. To be honest it was horrendous - not exactly CC but endless coming and going - waiting outside the room for 10-20 seconds etc trying to get her to lie down rather than stand up in her cot and cry/scream.
I ended up sleeping on her floor just trying to get her to sleep in her bed. Hours of her crying as she wanted me in her bed. Feel it was way too traumatic for her and me.
I gave up after 6 months. Since then she has needed cuddles or hand holding to fall asleep and wakes in the night. If I creep out again she invariably wakes up again.
The only times she has slept through was when she is physically exhausted (running around for hours usually on holiday which isn't practical most days!) and nterestingly when I was away for and she didn't bother waking DH up at all!
I know she wants me but I can't do this anymore. Have tried sticker charts and promising her Build a Bear if doesn't wake up but she just will not.
I was talking to some mums today about how their kids routinely sleep from 6pm -6am and it has really got to me. I need my sleep. Any advice please wise MNetters...
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Desperate for help with 5 year old DD - wont sleep through the night
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MinginInTheRain · 07/07/2014 16:48
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