Hi all
I'm pretty sure DS should be dropping his third nap, but I don't know how to go from here!
Any advice I've read suggests aiming for a nap at 9am, then another at 1pm (based on a 7,7 routine), which we can sometimes manage (but to be honest, it's usually more like 1230) but DS never seems to have a decent afternoon nap, it's usually half hour, 45mins so he's up by 2pm at the latest. There's no way will he'll last until bedtime. He's now very reluctant to go down for a third catnap despite being completely knackered, so what do I do? We've been putting him to bed early more often than not, but this is actually very difficult for us both due to working hours. 99% if the time bedtime is a meltdown (for him to not cry after his bath is so rare, we worry he won't go to sleep if it does happen!)
Our 'routine' goes something like this:
630, 7 - wakes up
830, 9 until 10, half 10 - morning nap
1230, 1 for around half hour, hour max (he seems to like waking at half 1 for some reason)
3, half 3 - tired again, grumpy/clingy/whingy. Try and get him to catnap which seems to be taking until 4, let him sleep until half past.
630, 7 (aiming for 7, half 7 really) - bed.
If we go out during the day, or someone else is looking after him it all goes to pot. I'm finding the whole thing really quite stressful and I find I can't relax if his naps are bad because I know what's coming.
Anyone have any advice/relevant anecdotes? Or can someone please tell me to chill the f**k out and just go with the flow?! (I struggle with that approach!) Help!
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Help with 9mo DS's napping
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LackingCommonSense · 15/04/2014 14:16
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