Over the last month, my 3 year old DD has been getting worse and worse at going to bed and settling.
Our current circumstances dictate that we all share a bedroom, and there is not sufficient room for her to have a bed. She's not cramped in the cot, and the room is neither too light, dark, hot or cold.
Routine (such as it is), is: protein-rich tea, bit of play time, change into nightwear, story & cuddle, warm milk, teeth cleaned, toilet and off to bed. We keep lights low from story time onwards, tv off, no music.
She's been dry through the night for around 5 months. No incidents during day time.
Every night it seems to get worse. We lay on the bed for 5 minutes, and have a little chat and a cuddle. She then goes into the cot (at her request). That's when the trouble starts. We then have endless requests for holding hands, cuddles, wanting a drink, wanting some lip salve/cream on a hurt toe/finger (or anything else that she thinks of)....
We used to be able to give her a kiss and a cuddle, sit with her for 5 minutes, put the nightlight on (on a timer for 10 mins), and go out of the room.
The past week it's taken two hours to get her to settle.
I've tried threats, bribes, cuddles, talking, not talking... going out and coming back. Going out and staying out. When I do the latter she ends up screaming until near hysterical/making herself sick.
I'm really running out of patience and stamina. I don't want to be shouty and cross but it's really wearing me down. I've had an extremely stressful two years with bereavements and difficult family circumstances. I have done my utmost to make sure we have quality time. I'm in the final year of a Masters degree, and stress is starting to tell.
If I could buy a chloroform pillow, I would.
Please give me your failsafe solutions. I know that in reality 'this too shall pass' but it's not passing soon enough. DH and I have precious little time together as it is, and currently we are spending all evening alternating attendance on DD.
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MrsCosmopilite · 18/02/2014 22:44
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