Hi
I'm a first time mum so am all new to this job!
I have a bottle fed 4 week old. He is putting on weight well and feeds every 3 - 4 hours and pretty much at the following times 6- 7am, 9.30 - 10.15am, 1.45 - 2.30 pm and then 5pm and top up around 6.30 - we then put him (or try to ) to bed. My husband feeds him at 10 - 10.30pm. He then usually wakes for a feed around 1.45- 2.45 and then will rouse somewhere between 5.45 - 6.30 (not usually near 7am). He sleeps in his own cot - I sleep in the room next door so can still hear his cries but not the snuffles ! We have a baby monitor and a respiratory alarm monitor.
He was obviously quite sleepy when he came out of hospital, but that has all changed now....
In the evenings we try to put him down around 6.30 - 7pm. It is anyone's guess whether he'll settle. He can cry for about 10 minutes or will grizzle on and off for longer - if he's overtired, it's an intermittent moaning which then tails off as he fights sleep. If he's upset, it's escalating wailing - so we can then decide what to do (ie leave or deal). He then tends to settle fine after the 10.30 and 2ish feeds as we whip him back into his cot without too much fuss (and feed in the dark). Most people have said that the evening slot is the one which is hard to get a baby to settle. Any ideas what to do with him if he won't settle ?- I know that the obvious kind thing to do is to pick them up and have a cuddle and believe me that's what I'm naturally inclined to do. However, am I creating a rod for my own back by doing this or should I just sit by the cot and rub his tummy/ other ? I'm having a bit of a battle with my husband over this one.
Also during the day, he is not inclined to go into his cot, without a fuss, for a nap. I tend to put him tummy down (he sleeps on his back in his cot at night) - on his playmat instead by me, and he will then drop off fine for a nap. He'll also go to sleep in his buggy or car seat (that seems to be the norm). Should I try to encourage him into his cot again on his back, or should I wait for this for later on ? Is it ok to leave him to sleep supervised on his tummy? Is this going to stop him happily sleeping on his back at night. It's just so nice to see him asleep without me tramping the streets every day !!
Any advice greatly welcomed please - particularly with advice re crying and the tummy daytime naps...
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dibley30 · 01/08/2006 11:41
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