Getting desperate here! DS is almost 6 months and until 3 1/2 months was sleeping really well at night (down c.8.30pm, one wake up c.3am and then back down till morning). Then it all changed (4 month regression?) and he began waking every 2 hours. This is okay, I thought, we'll ride it out and co-sleep to get through it.
The problem is, we haven't got through it and it's all getting ridiculous now as he is totally, utterly dependent on my boob to sleep in a way that he wasn't before.
He goes down at about 8/8.30pm (in his own room) but then usually requires resettling with just a pick up and a hug twice before we go to bed. Then he wakes at 12.30am and I bring him into our bed for a feed, and then wakes again at 2/2.30am, 4.30am, 5.30am and is fed back to sleep each time, and then we're up at 6.30am for the day as DD (3.7) is up then.
I don't mind the idea of co-sleeping in theory, I quite like it, but in practice it's not good for us - we have a big bed but it still feels like there's not enough space, and lying on my side to feed him has given me a really bad lower back which pinches all night and when I get up in the morning. DS feeds and then falls aleep lying in the crook of my arm, but I find this uncomfortable after a while, and also worry about his head being raised up on my upper arm for extended periods. When I try to ease my arm out from under him once he's asleep he invariably wakes up and then won't resettle without the boob again, even if it's only been a few mins since he stopped feeding! I wouldn't leave him to cry but I can't even leave him to grumble for a minute or two to see if he'd resettle himself as DD has very sensitive hearing and wakes if she hears him, and then I have 2 awake and in tears! I really feel he is waking more because we are co-sleeping, but I'm not sure how to fix this. I'd ideally like him sleeping back in his cot and for me to go into his room for feeds and then put him back down so I can sleep properly in my own bed! We have just started solids and he seems very enthusiastic and is taking baby porridge, a few purées and lots of finger foods. The nappies are changing so I know he's taking stuff in, but I don't really think it's hunger that is making him wake so much, it's habit and comfort.
Any suggestions? I am feeling a bit broken at the moment! Thanks...
Please or to access all these features
Please
or
to access all these features
Join our Sleep forum for tips on creating a sleep routine for your baby or toddler.
Sleep
Co-sleeping has become a nightmare! Help!
12 replies
LemonGoby · 27/01/2014 08:05
OP posts:
Please create an account
To comment on this thread you need to create a Mumsnet account.