Hi.
DS2 is 2.3 and has always been a poor sleeper. Wakes at any noise and didn't sleep through till about 18 months. At 2.2 he started escaping from his cot. We have reluctantly for safety reasons removed the sides and put a bed guard up. First couple of weeks were great, and although he got up in the morning he didn't mess around at bedtime or during the night.
Now things have altered and for the last 2-3 weeks its just getting increasingly worse. He doesn't settle well to start with and starts piddling about with teddies and his bedtime seahorse (on/off/on/off/giggling etc). He then gets up and leaves his room probably 6 times before finally going to sleep. He'll then have a good stretch till about 1am when it all goes wrong and he then repeatedly gets up and wanders into our room during the night. I take him back and ask him to stay there.
Add into the mix the odd night where his DS (4) goes to the loo which also wakes him up (light sleeper, as I say, although me banging about at my bedtime doesn't wake him) and some nights the whole house is awake 3, 4, 5 times.
My present method is that either DH or I just takes him back, covers him up, and tells him firmly he has to stay in bed. He doesn't seem to be seeking affection (doesn't ask for a cuddle or cry or be upset) or a drink, it really does feel like he's just doing it 'because he can' more than anything else.
He's still having a daytime sleep, which again he has started messing around with getting settled (gets out of bed) but he asks for the sleep after lunch and when he does go, he sleeps for ages unless I wake him sooner (he'd sleep 2 hours+ if I let him but I wake after 1.5) but I'm wondering if the time has come to drop the nap? Trouble is I selfishly don't want to. He's a proper live wire and I find myself really needing that hour in the middle of the day to recharge my own batteries. Plus I genuinely feel he should need it; when he does go he goes like a light and considering how much he's been hurtling about all morning (he just never stops....) then I can see how he needs it.
Should I be doing something else? Taking him back silently? He doesn't seem to escape from the travel cot but it feels mean putting him in that and going backwards somehow. Not sure how I feel about shutting his door tight either. I like to check on him at my bedtime and if I shut the door really tight then when I open it he wakes from the noise.
Starting to feel very sleep deprived and its starting to show on us all. Any words of wisdom would be appreciated.
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alabasterangel · 16/09/2013 20:45
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