Hi Ladies, Really at my wits end and looking for some advice please ! My son whose now 14 mo has always woken overnight - on a good night its once and can be any time from 11pm onwards. On a bad night its 2 or 3 times... Before Christmas he was usually only waking once around 3 or 4 and I would then change him / and feed him and he would go back to sleep. We took a trip to relatives at Chrimstas and he didn't sleep at all well in the travel cot plus he was in the same room as me so got used to me being nearby. Back home again, he hasn't settled back into his old sleeping at all and is now up at least twice and I'm lucky if he goes back asleep after feeeding - more often he's standing up roaring crying the minute I try to leave him. He's very stubborn and will roar the place down. We left him to cry it out a couple of nights after he'd been fed / changed etc... and no reason for him not to be asleep, and he cried for about an hour. But he still woke up again a few hours later.
I am wondering if my breast feeding him is contributing to his restless nights. The strange thing is that he can go down wide awake for his midday nap and will cry maybe for a few minutes and then sleeps for about 2 hours. Same thing at night, he is rarely asleep going into the cot and may give a protest cry or not at all so I know he can go to sleep on his own.
Also he normally wakes around 11pm and whimpers a bit and then goes back to sleep but on his second wake up - around 2am he will just cry and cry until I go to him.
Any advice, what should I do ? I really don't think its hunger but rather comfort of the boob he wants. Even by day he only wants Mammy at the moment so I don't think sending DH in is an option.
He drinks cows milk during the day so he only gets breast milk going to bed at night, overnight and first thing in the morning.
Thanks for ANY help or advice.
I work full time so the constant sleep deprivation is very hard.
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Bubblesmum · 17/01/2006 21:43
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