this link explains enabling behaviour It's a bit woolly, but just the first link I found.
I worry sometimes reading threads where the OP is in abusive relationships, or having substance or mental health issues, that sometimes the support from MN might cross the line from support to enabling.
So someone in a bad relationship might repeatedly turn to MN and get enough support to feel better for a while, and then stay in the relationship knowing that MN can provide them the emotional support they need to continue. Or someone with substance issues might get support on MN for trying to stop and then feel better and not reach the crisis point which catapults them into AA etc. etc. I'm not talking about particular people or threads here, it's a general worry.
Whereas if they'd talked to someone in RL there might be more impetus to take action in RL?
But maybe they can't talk to anyone in RL so the fact that MN is there for them might be a good thing? Or is MN a way of talking about something without it becoming a real thing which needs action?
I'm not saying I have the answer, just that I'm worried and I wonder if others are worried and if they have a clearer outlook on it than me?
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does anyone else worry that MN might be enabling sometimes?
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becstarlitsea · 02/04/2009 09:58
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