Remove a Thread

[TreadmillMom]

I would like to remove/delete a thread I have created and all the relevant responses, can this be done?

[Nip]

Yes - I think if you click on the red asterix you can contact mumsnet and ask them... never done it myself though.

[itsmeNDP]

it's the red exclamation mark which shows as report this post when you hover your mouse over it.

[ItsMeMellowma]

Which one - before it goes please

[jenwa]

hi there
I think I know which one as have read it and think maybe some of the responses were very direct and have prob upset you. Its hard to post a thread on here and hear those things said. I think the other MN's are only concerned and dont know the full situation so can only comment on what you have originally posted.

I do feel for you and hope you can remove thread if you want to. Also if read by OH may upset/annoy him.

Hope you sort things out.

[TreadmillMom]

Good Morning Jenwa,
You have hit the nail on the head. I did want honest opinions and that is exactly what I got but it hurts, it really does, I feel I've totally exposed myself and regret posting my life for all to see.
Some of the comments have made me look at my husband with slight disdain, I do still love him but at this moment in time feel incapable of relating to him and it's all down to the posts.
The man MN's describe in their responses is not my OH.
Do you understand?

[jenwa]

Hi there
Yes I do, when I was reading the thread I did really feel for you as I thought some comments made were very harsh. No one knows the full story and I think you probably wanted to offload and ended up getting more than you bargained for!

Its hard as you want to post things on here for advise but dont want some things said and one persons comments can lead to a spiral of more harsh/direct etc.

I have not done this myself but can imagine how you feel. I read some comments and wanted to post something but was not sure what without getting a remark back from other MNs.
I wanted to say about the issue they were all on about and to me it was a one off and I think there are alot of people who do lose their temper and do it and prob alot on here who would not admit it. (have not put issue due to previous remarks made - you understand)
I would try and sort out your problems your way, you obviously love your children and know whats best for them. I think you need to take a bit of time out and maybe chat to your OH and find out how he feels. It would be awful to seperate or fall out with someone because of what other people say. I know they are trying to help but to me it seems like a problem with man/women relationships and having children and men are not always that helpful in that area! (I know!) They are never as patient as us. Maybe its a case of talking to each other about issues and see where that goes.
Keep your chin up.