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I use mumsnet through safari and always got on to the mobile version but today it asked me if I wanted the desktop site and I said yes always-but I don't!!!!!! I've got an iPhone but prefer going through safari-how do I get it back to being the mobile version when I search via safari?? It always goes on to desktop now because I told it too-boooooo!!!