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If they refuse to delete a thread that is has gone so far from the op so quickly and is now being dominated by one person with an agenda, fine. But they could at least delete my msgs asd requested and pm me as promised. I have no idea what, if any, email they might be using.
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We emailed you yesterday on the email address you gave when you registered with us. Would you mind checking and letting us know whether you've received it?
When HelenMumsnet posted on your other thread to say we'd be 'pinging into your inbox', she meant that we would email you, not that we would PM you. We tend not to use PMs as a way of communicating with posters.
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