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I see (sort of). So are "most active" available to us? I mean is there a tab somewhere that brings us to "most active" acc to some complicated tech algorithm? I always just click Active, so thats active convos, as you say, those posted on most recently.
When My MN page is loading I get a glimpse of perhaps 9-10 discussions of the day, for eg at the moment there is one about - I phone: are you on a contract But when the page is fully loaded there is only 5 discussions (at the moment this is from Online abuse to world of warcraft)
Is this because my laptop screen is small I wonder? Or are the ones I cannot see being queued up or something like that? I only ever see the extra discussion headings for a second or two. (Dont think I am imaging it..)