DD is working hard at school and spend a satisfying amount of time doing homework and revising, is organised and tidy, and despite having a slight disadvantage in terms of raw intelligence compared to DS, I am sure will do extremely work because of her work ethic and self discipline. Unfortunately DS is not pulling his socks up and I am not sure how to help this. He is just lazy and minimalist, he is driving me bonkers. School reports and parents evening invariably tell the same thing, he is not making any efforts, particularly at home. Apart from shouting and policing and nagging, which is not fun and exhausting, what can I do? His dad is always away for work, I am basically on my own with this.
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