Quite cross on behalf of my son, although he doesn't care a jot. He is in first year at the local state Secondary. He has just turned 13 so is one of the oldest in his year (we're in Scotland) and the school he is at is very good - one of the top 5 or 6 in Scotland in the state sector and regularly sends pupils on to Oxbridge, medicine or law courses.
Son is very academic. He is a sponge for things like science and history, but on the flip side can't draw for toffee and is completely useless at sport. Last week he came home with a letter saying he's got some sort of award at prize giving and the ceremony is next week. He is delighted and we're very pleased for him.
The other kids in the class not so much. They are sneering about "teachers' pet" awards, calling him a nerd, geek or swot, and basically saying they wouldn't be seen dead in an awards ceremony. I am sure that if my child was being given a place on the football team or winning awards for painting or drama the reaction would be quite different.
Luckily my son has zero social skills so couldn't care less what other people are saying about him. I do think though that in a high-achieving school, where many of the parents are in professional jobs and have been through higher education, that this sort of attitude is really depressing. It's not changed in the 30 years since I was at a crap comp and being bullied for handing in homework on time.
Why is low academic achievement something so many teens seem to aspire to??
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Why is academic achievement STILL scoffed at?
LunaLoveg00d · 27/05/2016 10:20
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