This is complicated but here goes.
Two sons: one in a (frankly poor) comprehensive, currently Y8. Bright boy, gifted in maths. Treading water big time and losing motivation. Socially not very happy either. School has just been taken over by an academy trust; things may or may not improve but right now my confidence in the school is low.
Younger DS is Y6 and was down to go to the same school, but today got an email saying he's come to the top of the waiting list for a better local comp. not amazing, but head and shoulders above the other one in terms of grades (and I do care about grades. They're both academic and have the potential to do well).
Accepting the place for DS2 feels like a no-brainer but I'm dreading telling DS1 that DS2 will be going to a different school. DS1 well aware that his school is not well regarded, and he also is hugely looking forward to DS2 coming to his school - DS2 much more socially adept (v popular, a real live wire) and I know DS1 is thinking things will look up in the playground when DS2 arrives.
The other (new) school doesn't give sibling priority on the waiting list and they say DS1 would be unlikely to get a place before Y10 - which means it's out of the question really as that's GCSEs underway (?)
I have to accept the place for DS2 really, don't I? I'm not usually a dramatic sort but my heart is breaking for DS1 a little bit.
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Poor school, sibling admissions dilemma... What would you do?
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TresDesolee · 18/04/2016 14:22
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