I'm looking for secondary schools for my son, who is currently in Year 5 at a private prep. He is, in the nicest possible way, a jack of all trades. He is enthusiastic and loves to get stuck in—really enjoys drama, team sports, debating, IT, DT, art and music but excels at none. Academically, he is good rather than great (middle of top set for English, top of top set for French, middle of second set for Maths).
We had a first meeting with his headmaster, and he recommended a bunch of boarding schools for my son, from Tonbridge to Wellington and Charterhouse, because they provide the kind of rounded education that would really suit him and his many interests.
We went to see some of the schools the head recommended and agree with him that some seem the perfect match—but no one in our family has ever boarded and, most importantly, my son is really uncomfortable at the idea of leaving home to board.
So here is my question: could anyone suggest a SW London day school with a boarding school ethos that really nurtures the individual and his interests and is not only focused on those few who can achieve academic/sporting/artistic/musical/dramatic success?
I saw and liked Epsom College and Whitgift, but have been told that both have very alpha male cultures: if you are not in the first XI/XV you are a nobody. So I'm back to the drawing board, looking for ideas. In case anyone asks, I did look at the local state options but ruled them out, as one is a supermega selective grammar, and the other one is nothing much of anything.
Any suggestions are welcome, thanks!
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Oneverytiredmum · 25/01/2015 21:11
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